written by: Alissa Hill

At STOPS to Violence Saskatchewan, we believe that every individual can help foster safe and supportive communities. One way to do this is by strengthening "natural supports"—the helpers, friends, family members, coworkers, and community members who are often the first to notice when someone is struggling. These everyday connections can make a big impact, in particular, when it comes to addressing harmful relationships and supporting those affected by violence.

The Power of Language in Creating Safety

When we talk about violence, the words we use matter. Terms like "abuse" and "perpetrator" can sometimes feel overwhelming or alienating, making it harder for people to seek help or offer support. By using more approachable, everyday language, we can create conversations that feel safer, more accessible, and non-judgmental. For example, instead of saying "abuse," we can talk about "harmful relationships" or "unhealthy behaviors." Instead of labeling someone a "perpetrator," we can acknowledge that people cause harm in different ways and that change is possible.

These small shifts in language help open doors for meaningful dialogue, reduce stigma, and empower more people to step into supportive roles without feeling like they need to be experts to make a difference.

Introducing REALtalk:  

To support communities in having these critical conversations, we are excited to introduce a new initiative in Saskatchewan. STOPS to Violence is partnering with Sagesse, an Alberta-based organization, to bring their REALtalk program to our communities.

REALtalk was created to help everyday people feel confident and prepared to talk about relationships, safety, and support in a way that is approachable and effective. Through this program, participants learn:

• How to recognize when someone may be experiencing harm in their relationships.
• Practical skills to listen and respond with compassion.
  
• Ways to connect people to resources and services when needed.
• Strategies for creating a culture of support and safety within their communities.
  

Why REALtalk Matters for Saskatchewan Communities

When more people feel comfortable and equipped to have supportive conversations, entire communities benefit. REALtalk empowers natural supports—friends, neighbors, coworkers, and community leaders—to play a pro-active role in creating safer, more connected spaces for everyone. By fostering an environment where people feel heard and understood, we can help prevent harm before it escalates and ensure that those experiencing difficulties are not facing them alone.

Get Involved!

We invite individuals, organizations, and community groups to learn more about REALtalk and how you can bring this important program to your community. If you’re interested in participating or hosting a REALtalk session, please reach out to Alissa Hill at alissa@stopstoviolence.com.

Together, we can create communities where everyone feels supported, heard, and safe. Join us in making a difference.